Ryan Allaire; The Affiliate Manager

I wanted to share something that’s extremely important that you need to know before we start kicking off these Affiliate calls. I know everyone talks about it, and people think it’s a bunch of “hype”… But, it’s the thing that will make or break your Affiliate training- and Success. It’s the “thing” that changed my life and income today.

It’s your “MINDSET”!

You need to truly focus on the things you want, and pay close ‘attention’ to your goals- rather than attract the negative things in your current life.

I see people do this all the time and they give excuse after excuse why they’re stuck. Instead of having that mindset, thinking positive! That’s the only thing I need from you…Then the rest is a cake walk:) Like my mentor Lisa Diane has always taught me “Your Thoughts Create Your Life”. And I live by this today (it’s my secret weapon)!!

Let me share my story with you…

I was always thinking of making money and living “the good life” at a very young age. I was part of a large family (two older sisters, a twin brother, younger brother and my two parents). We lived in a tiny 2 bedroom house and made the family room into a 3rd bedroom. My parents actually told the landlord they only had 3 children and when she visted the house she owned, we went along as saying we were just visiting family members (she never caught on in ten years;).. Anyways make a long story short money was always tight. We lived week by week and really never had any of the ‘nice furniture’ and belongings my other “better off” realtives and friends had. We had a station wagon that my parents were always stressing about and it was always breaking down.

So I’m living “this” life and I always found myself working. Making my own money, having my own fun, picturing MY dreamlife. Not my parents 9-5 slave jobs and trying to support a family. I mowed about 6 lawns a week, pressure washed 1000’s of roofs and did what ever to make a quick dime. So I always had my own money. My friends had gas scooters their parents bought them- and I bought my own at age 14 for $500. Well, I began playing sports and the rec- center was my second home. I would jog there and play sports to have fun with friends and it gave me something to do to stay out of trouble :o)

Then I really got involved in football, I needed something to relieve anger;) lol just kidding. I really loved the sport, I was part of a team and people looked up to me for my talents. I was so focused and trained so hard- I actually was really good. I made the pro bowls every year and won many trophies and rewards for my good talents.

So by now my older sisters are moved out.. and it seemed like my parents started making money, and we were doing good. We cleaned up the house. My dad bought a boat,  got my mom a new Mustang, he got his self a brand new Explorer Sport all chromed out and had all these awesome features…But the bad news smacked me in the face.

My dad was making money the wrong way. He was selling cocaine and many other drugs out of our house. I saw in his dresser large amounts of cash, and bundles of pill bottles, and large amounts of various drugs…

Well before the FBI got to him for selling illegal drugs.. The ‘high’ off the drugs did. They sold the boat, then went the mustang, his brand new Explorer got repossessed, and we got evicted out of our home… Now I start my senior year of high school and my parents took off because they owed drug dealers large amounts of cash. So now they moved in with relatives 4 hours south, and my twin brother and I called my sister’s living room home for the next year.

So much was going through my head. I was so embarrassed, I made up stories to my friends why I lived with my sister, and held all my emotions inside of me.. But this nasty lifestyle I was living wasn’t the true me…And I knew that deep down inside- and focused on the good. So I began thinking positive and starting with the first thing first…I focused on getting a nice place to live, buying a nice vechicle, and starting to build ‘MY life’ and not what my family had left me.

So I joined Lisa Diane’s first online marketing coaching program- and that changed my life today. I wasn’t able to play football due to a crazy summer moving around and watching my parents life crash like a bad accident. So I started listening to Lisa- my last bit of hope, other than my faith in God.

She began teaching me about online marketing and giving me the blueprints to her personal businesses and I copied her exact business model and followed every step. Just like my parents addiction to drugs at the time.. I began my own habit. But, my addiction was to Succeed in life and help others!! She started conditioning me the same way I’m conditioning you.. With your MINDSET.

After going on only 2 years I’ve been out of high school, I now live in a mansion on the Gulf, bought a new Chevy Alalanch, purchased a dirt bike, and go on many vacations multiple times a year. Now it’s my tearn to give back. To help others who are in need like I was at one time. Be that hand that picks you up when it feels like you’re on the very bottom of the earth. So I ask you to do one thing before we get started. Write down what you want in the year 2008.

Make short term and long term goals. And TRUST ME.. You will see results! I can guarantee this 110%. Create what I call a dream scene and cut out and paste your “new life” on a poster board. So when times get rough and you’re down and out, you have a reminder why you are here and what you’re working for.

Stop living someone elses life and create your New Dream Life!!

As Always..

To Your Success, and Making Millions;)

Ryan Allaire
The Affiliate Blog

PS: Leave comments on ‘creating your dream life’ or “sharing  your story”, & I’m going to give someone a special gift:)